One of the things that is a strength for me is also a weakness. I see things that need fixing. I am a fixer. Doesn’t that sound nicer than I am critical, but alas, that is part of who I am. I tend to see what is out of place, what needs repair, what is still left to be done.
Until a few years ago, I saw this as only a negative. I remember hating this about myself and always wanting to change. Then one day I had a conversation with a friend who suffered from the same ailment. She pointed out how we need people who are able to see what needs to be fixed. It is only bad if you don’t see it in yourself and temper it with appreciation. It, like most traits, just needs to be managed in order to be a blessing rather than a curse. Well that was much more pleasant.
Since then I have learned more about gifts of the spirit and how being able to contribute constructive criticism is often called for. My children have mentioned on more than one occasion that they appreciate constructive criticism because it helps them improve and they truly dislike false praise given just to make them feel good. Further confirmation that this trait is not totally to be despised.
However, I also have realized that my critical nature has been a stumbling block to me, and it is good to keep that in perspective as well. The Lord has been teaching me about love of late. It is my word for the year. I am already seeing how very much I have to learn about love. It is a humbling journey to see how much criticism has kept me from loving or how the lack of love has cultivated a critical cynicism. I thank God for continually humbling me, because it is in that humbling that He is showing me where I need to repent and how I can become more like Christ.
STOP. 5 minutes up.
It never ceases to amaze me how I think I know something, and God clarifies how little I really know. I am also grateful for that. It has given me perspective along my life journey. I have many humble, tearful, joyful rides with the Lord these days. It is life-changing. It is life-enhancing. It’s liberating. The tears shed, are tears of joy as the Holy Spirit not only shows me the error and sin that have been my stumbling blocks, but concurrently delivers me from them. What a gracious loving God. As He sets free, everything else becomes richer. It’s like the smoker who gets a new appreciation for food once she quits because the taste or rather her ability to experience the taste is intensified.
Ah the renewing power of the Holy Spirit brings love to life and leaves the fixing to Him.
But from there you will seek the Lord your God, and you will find Him if you search for Him with all your heart and all your soul. Deuteronomy 4:29
Now, set your timer, clear your head, for five minutes of free writing without worrying about getting it right.
Now, set your timer, clear your head, for five minutes of free writing without worrying about getting it right.
1. Write for 5 minutes flat – no editing, no over thinking, no backtracking.
2. Link back here and invite others to join in.
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